long distance relationship doesn't work ba talaga?










long distance relationship doesn't work ba talaga?

i was shocked by the news that my friends broke up..both of them are my friends and former office mates..

kanina i was in ortigas when i bumped with our common friend..cyempre kamustahan..then, i knew it from her that our friends broke up..

i texted my girl friend...and confirmed.. break na nga sila..sad lang kc pareho ko sila friend and i know their love story...for five years of being together...3 months ago break na sila...because of "no time for each other" according to my girl friend..they agreed to separate ways..

maybe OA reaction ko...(kasi i always believe on being honest and faithful with whom i am commited with, what ever happens and wherever that person is dapat you understand and keep your love)...pero kasi i expected they end up with each other talaga, and as far as i know they are geting married sooner pa nga..tapos ganun..

i'm shocked, kasi in those three months i lost contact with them..and now this news surprised me..sad ako..pero ganun talaga eh..

isip ko lang, paano na ngayon yan? paano ko sila makakasama pareho ng sabay? eh tropa ko sila...at ndi ko alam kung sino pagagalitan sa nangyari ( joke)...

i'm not in their relationship pero ako ang hindi makatanggap with what happen sa kanila..heheh...both of them are good friends of ours (my bf & i)..when i told my bf about that...sabi ko bakit ganun? bakit break na sila? they share a lot of things together, they even have their house pa nga...bakit ganun? paano na natin sila makakasama...

sabi nun girl friend ko "ganun yata talaga eh...nawalan ng time"...

maybe one factor din un paglipat ng house nun girl friend ko...she's living in cavite now while my guy friend lives in makati...pero ganun ba talaga? hay...masanay din cguro ako about the situation..masanay din na if ever we will having a get together....they're with somebody else na...

paano na sa wedding ko? iba na ung kasama nila na bf at gf nila...hay...i just hope both of them will be okay and find what they are really looking for with her new bf and with his new gf now..

7 comments:

  1. hirap talaga LDR,nasa tao nalang yun panu nila msisingit yung tym nila sa isat-isa.

    hndi lang sa fren mo ngyayari ang gnyan,tulad ko nranasan ko din dati yan.LDR di naglaon npunta din sa wala.

    hndi ang bsta-basta tiwala ang kylangan.mraming bagay.hay ganun talaga.life must go on.

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  2. mahirap talaga ang ldr, tulad ko, kasalukuyan na nasa dubai ang gf ko, madaming temptation sa paligid at iyon ang sobrang hirap paglabanan..

    mahirap.
    mahirap.
    sadyang mahirap ang ldr..

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  3. @ kheed
    hahaha parang madaming umaaligid saiyoparekoy ahh....

    @ate kuletz
    mahirap talaga ang LDR....alam mo bang sa walong nakarelasayon ko ...7 dun ay puro LDR? hahaha pero dapat pag LDR kayo...need lang ng tiwala....

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  4. @hari nga sablay

    cguro nga mahirap un..ndi ko pa naman kc na experience.. sakin kc i can assure na ndi ko pagpapalit ung bf ko basta promise nia magpakabait at babalik cia sakin...heheheheh..wag lang ako gaguhin talaga...else i will treat him as if he never exist!!!

    @kheed
    cguro mas ok kung cool off or magbreak na kayo before mag abroad isa sa inyo diba...heheh...atleast walang may fault if magkaroon ng ibang relationship both parties ndi ba? o kya naman if may type ka na iba...be honest tell mo sa gf mo...habang maaga..or if mabait ka naman khit anung tukso pa dumating...isip mo ung gf mo...pumikit at magdasal na lumayo ang mga temptations na un..at layuan mo na..hahha...


    @saul krisna

    puro guys kayong nagcomment dito...i want to hear a comment from a girl..heheh kung anu point nila..kunga tama ba kayo...heheh... i hope ok ldr nio ni misyhel..stay inlove!!! =^.^=

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  5. nakakarelate akow sobra, hmmmm but then i do believe naman na if you both truly love , trust and respect each other di hadlang yung distance, nasa tao nalang cguro un and the way both handle the situation...wish ko lang this time magwork na din yung sakin,...nice blog here!tc lage

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  6. Im learning to live mylife again. Gaining what ive been before knowing my ex. haaaay.. Sad naman.. but its better to be friends kesa sa situation ko kahit acquiantance ayaw nung tao. hay

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  7. @amorgatory

    thank you very much for visiting me here..hope to see you more often here..korek ka po ndi hadlang distance kung talagang love nio isa't isa..have faith!! maging ok love life mo...thanks coz u like my blog..

    @ryan "JUMONG"

    you will be ok i know...let go..isipin mo na lang may mas magandang ibibigay sa'yo c God..

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